Understanding Separation Anxiety in Children: How Hypnotherapy Can Help
As a parent, saying goodbye to your child can be an emotionally charged moment, whether you’re dropping them off at school, leaving them with a relative, or even just stepping out of the room at bedtime. For many children, phases of separation anxiety are a normal part of their early years. However, for some, this anxiety can become persistent, affecting their emotional well-being and daily activities.
What Is Separation Anxiety?
Separation anxiety is a developmental phase that most children experience between 18 months and 3 years old. During this period, children often feel distressed when a parent or caregiver leaves, whether for a short or longer time. This reaction is entirely normal and usually subsides as children grow older, become more independent, and gain confidence in their surroundings.
However, for some children, separation anxiety can persist well beyond this age, and in some cases, it may even extend into adolescence. This can result in ongoing emotional distress and interfere with their social and academic life.
When Is It More Than Just a Phase?
While mild separation anxiety is common and usually temporary, it can become a more significant problem for some children. When a child’s anxiety becomes intense, frequent, and disruptive to daily life, it may be indicative of Separation Anxiety Disorder (SAD).
Signs that your child may be experiencing SAD include:
- Refusal to attend school or participate in activities without a parent present.
- Excessive clinginess, such as an inability to sleep alone or a constant need for a parent to be nearby.
- Sleep disturbances, including nightmares or difficulty falling asleep without a parent.
- Physical symptoms, such as headaches, stomachaches, or nausea, often linked to the anticipation of separation.
- Changes in eating habits, either a lack of appetite or using food as a comfort mechanism.
If these behaviours are affecting your child’s quality of life or development, seeking professional support could make a significant difference.
How Hypnotherapy Can Help Treat Separation Anxiety in Children
Separation anxiety, although a normal developmental phase, can become a persistent challenge for some children, interfering with their ability to feel secure and thrive. Fortunately, there are effective treatment options, and hypnotherapy has proven to be particularly beneficial in treating separation anxiety.
Hypnotherapy works by accessing the subconscious mind to help children understand and manage their fears. Using relaxation techniques, children can learn to alleviate their anxiety, develop healthier coping strategies, and gradually reframe their emotional responses to separation. Instead of feeling fearful, they can learn to approach separation with a sense of security and confidence.
At Setanta Hypnotherapy Clinic in Peel, Isle of Man, we have helped numerous children overcome their separation anxiety, enabling them to thrive emotionally and socially. Mary Nathan, an experienced Hypno-Psychotherapist, tailors each therapy session to suit the child’s age and individual needs, incorporating relaxation techniques, positive suggestion, and an empathetic approach to ensure the therapy is both effective and comfortable.
Why Hypnotherapy Works
Hypnotherapy is especially effective for children with separation anxiety because it addresses the root causes of their fears. Unlike other therapies that may take a longer time to show results, hypnotherapy can produce noticeable improvements relatively quickly. Through a relaxed, focused state, children can reprogramme their subconscious to feel more secure and less anxious in situations that previously triggered their fears. This newfound sense of calm and control can empower them to tackle challenges with greater confidence—whether it’s attending school, sleeping independently, or navigating social situations.
The Rise in Anxiety Post-Lockdown
The COVID-19 pandemic and subsequent lockdowns have had a profound impact on children’s emotional health. Many children who were once comfortable with separation now face heightened anxiety due to the disruption of their routines, prolonged isolation, and changes to their daily lives.
At Setanta Hypnotherapy Clinic, we’ve seen a marked increase in parents seeking help for their children’s anxiety in the aftermath of these events. Hypnotherapy has proven to be an effective tool in helping children adjust and regain their emotional balance. By addressing the root causes of their anxiety and fostering a sense of safety and reassurance, hypnotherapy helps children return to a state of emotional well-being.
Take the First Step Today
If you’ve noticed your child struggling with separation anxiety, or if their emotional distress is disrupting their daily life, it may be time to consider seeking professional help. At Setanta Hypnotherapy Clinic, we offer a compassionate, effective, and proven approach to helping children overcome anxiety and regain their confidence.
To learn more about how hypnotherapy can help your child, get in touch with us today for a free consultation. Mary Nathan, an experienced Hypno-Psychotherapist, will be happy to discuss your child’s needs and provide guidance on the best course of action.
Visit www.SetantaHypnotherapy.com to book your free consultation with Mary Nathan.


